Relationship hasn't been working for you for a while? Do you feel it's not the same anymore, but you can't quite put your finger on why? Are you repeating the same mistakes from the past in your relationship? Can't you give your partner space, or does he/she give you space? Are you not as good in bed as you used to be, or has a third person come between you? If you want to solve your problems, do it effectively! We offer online consultations from the comfort of your home, 365 days a year, in several languages... BONUS: You pay nothing extra for a consultation with your partner!
Building a good working relationship is not easy. Often partners start out imagining a fairytale ending of "happily ever after", but once the initial infatuation wears off, they find that their visions for the future diverge. The question of why relationships don't last is difficult to answer. Every person is different and there is no one-size-fits-all formula for happiness. Communication, spending time together with your partner, but also trust and a certain amount of freedom, intimacy and sex are important for a functioning relationship. It can happen that things start to squeak somewhere, the relationship is dominated by stereotype, boredom, the desire to get to know something/someone new. Conversations together disappear, the days blend into one another and there are all sorts of tenderness and surprises.
When to see a marriage counsellor/relationship psychologist?
Any problem, even the slightest one, in a relationship is a signal to seek a psychologist. A relationship counsellor can give unbiased advice on how to repair or improve the relationship, or when it is better to end the relationship.
How does it work?
Don't count on your problems being solved in the first consultation, saving a relationship is a long haul. The psychologist will search for the real cause of your problems, which may be rooted in the distant past. So be prepared for the first few sessions to be uncomfortable. Each psychologist has their own methods, some alternate individual therapy with couple therapy, others prefer only joint sessions. We offer a wide range of options in our online counselling service, whether you choose to seek psychological counselling on your own or are looking for marriage counselling. If you are dealing with a marital crisis or anything else, don't put off seeing a psychologist. Early marital therapy can help you save the relationship.
